LDS Church wants to light up a temple in a place that prides itself on dark skies, For husband-and-wife team, this new restaurant is the culmination of a decadeslong dream, Gong took his place for a lifetime appointment in the faiths Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, asked in 2018 if having a gay son had affected his views on LGBTQ. As someone interested in the photographic impact of light, color, composition, and moment, Elder Gong imagines the childrenand others like them in Nepal, Vietnam, Malaysia, and Utahenjoying the space. (If they are, it will be a pleasant surprise.) The couple hosts grandkids camp every summer, which includes crafts and adventures, and loves to travel with their sons. I never thought of myself as nonwhite but as ethnically ambiguous, Gong says in an interview. Also I agree with Jason K. If the word of Wisdom initiated with Emma, then it appears the Lord expects His prophets to look in every direction when seeking inspiration. I confronted and broke down the lies I had been told about what it means to be queer. But you probably didnt know how cool it was. Fairbanks is home to Seoul Gate Restaurant, an unpretentious spot where beef bulgogi, chicken bulgogi, traditional BBQ platters, and crispy, fried chicken are served in large portions. Either way it helps us abide and grow. -Gerrit W. Gong. Im sorry youve had to deal with this racism, you are a beautiful couple!! A lot of good viewpoints and thoughts. July 10, 2022. [24], On March 31, 2018, Gong was sustained as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. His mother's family were ethnic Chinese in Hawaii, while his father's family had lived in California and other parts of the United States after his ancestors had emigrated from China in the late 19th century. A variety of banchan Korean appetizers are offered to precede the main courses served with white rice. When I realized that they were the new Apostles, I had chills all through my body, the hair on my arms stood up, and I felt so joyous. Hales. It depends. Johnif all are alike unto God, then you should expect that there are people worthy to be apostles from all racial backgrounds, not just one. There is a misconception that Asians and Asian-Americans do not experience racism in the US, because their model minority status casts them as the ideal scholars and citizens. The following is from FamilySearch: SALT LAKE CITY, UTAHElder Gerrit W. Gong of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and his wife, Susan Gong, will be the featured keynote speakers for Family Discovery Day at RootsTech 2023. Having a few interracial marriages in my extended family, Ive seen positive and negative consequences. From one who knows nothing, I couldnt help but see Elder Gong being placed in position to help open up China. [3] He is the LDS Church's first apostle of Asian descent. Even in this day and age I meet members who view interracial marriages and relationships in a negative light. If that makes me bad/wrong, then so be it. He was born on December 23, 1953 and his birthplace is California, Redwood City California. Elder Gerrit W. Gong of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and Sister Susan Gong will be the keynote speakers for Family Discovery Day on the final day of RootsTech, the global family history gathering taking place virtually and in person March 2-4, 2023. Enter your email address to follow BCC and receive new posts by email. Gerrit W Gong; Education. Fairbanks. Even at school, Gong, who easily passed as straight, grew increasingly silent, afraid of hugs and falling in love. On my mission, I learned that the first things to grow on the battlefields of France after World War I, were poppies, blood-red poppies, Gong tells the Affirmation virtual audience. Elder Gong, whose ancestors left southern China in the late 19th century for work in the United States, was born into the Church. No accent here! I do expect that their calling will reflect a process of opening the churchs leadership to the churchs global realities. At that moment you feel very humble, but you are certain in your confidence and love for President Nelson as the Lords prophet and Church President. This white British woman with Japanese husband and two children is with you all the way on this one. When the prophet starts allowing his decisions to be influenced by every wind of political and worldly doctrine everyone loses. It didnt matter if we agreed about everything; were still family. That was a message about God that he wanted to share and prompted him to serve a two-year mission for the church, he says in the interview. I commented on another thread here how much I admire Sister Susan Gong. [27][28][29][30], In November 2019, Gong presided over a worldwide broadcast that announced the LDS Church's new youth program. Elder Gerrit W. Gong of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and his wife, Sister Susan Gong, will also be featured at the conference as keynote speakers on Family Discovery Day the last day of the conference focused on making connections and celebrating family heritage. I genuinely feel this way and am not in any way trying to be disruptive or to be a troll. If my voice is silenced (deleted) I will take the hint that Im not welcome here and will quietly go away. It was my biggest hope for the conference. Discover Gerrit W. Gong's Wiki Biography, Age, Height, Physical Stats, Dating/Affairs, Family and career updates. This has been a great day in my long life! I have personally experienced stinging examples of this bias: confusion about our children, surprise about us being together, and even comments along the lines that I did it backwards by being a white woman married to my Korean-American husband. Gong is married to Susan Lindsay, a daughter of Richard P. Lindsay. They are the parents of four sons and have three grandchildren. My wife is Japanese and Im Puerto Rican, whoop dee doo. )[16] Gong and his wife are the parents of four sons. But the churchs mission is to reach throughout the world and serve people in their own languages, in their own cultures, and on their own terms without being destructive. Gerrit W. Gong was born on 23 December, 1953 in Redwood City, California, United States, is a Leader of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, first leader of Asian descent. Gong reflects on September 11th and reviews perspectives on war. You were referring to citizenship and location of childhood ambient culture. Bright colors and vivid images filled the once-blank cinder block wall of the soup kitchen in Phnom Pehn, Cambodia. Work to make it different, but live in reality, too. Also, only in the USA, would someone with Soaress phenotype be considered not white. Hes white everywhere else on the planet. http://www.pbs.org/wnet/black-in-latin-america/featured/black-in-latin-america-full-episode-brazil-a-racial-paradise/224/. He previously served as a member of the Asia Area Presidency and member of the Presidency of the Seventy.During his 20 years in Washington, D.C., he served as special assistant to the undersecretary of state at the U.S. State Department, as special . [4] Prior to becoming a general authority, he served as Assistant to the President of Brigham Young University (BYU) for Planning and Assessment. (And alsowhat Kevin said. Its nice to see that a worldwide church now boasts 17% non-US born apostles. Four of my children have married half mixed spouses, two half Japanese and two half Hispanic in Utah. A few early apostles married Scandinavian immigrants, but thats really stretching the definition of interracial marriage. Then whatever is revealed is always so outside a lot of peoples realm of what, who, or how things should be that murmuring is inevitable. But perhaps she was thinking of a 70 or something. We need to love till we do not marginalize any of our Fathers children. I believe inspiration comes to those who seek, as does revelation-like who to call to be apostles. Daily news, articles, videos and podcasts sent straight to your inbox. But if you would indulge me for a moment, I want to focus on one area of very specific, personal appreciation: the marriage of Elder Gerrit Gong, as an Asian-American man, to his wife Susan Gong, a white woman. Elder Gerrit W. Gong currently serves as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Elder Gong as a baby with his parents. I agree that people should go into an interracial marriage being mindful of the challenges. Steven J. Lund. And thus he came to see his gay self as a weed in the Latter-day Saint garden. Elder Gong said everywhere they go, people relate to Sister Gong. I personally am not concerned about quota filling in the Quorum. Susan is other-oriented and down-to-earth wherever she is, said Elder Gong. Hi MB, Im really not the expert to speak on that. Some of the activities include a throw-back photo challenge, family history Twister, family selfie station and a giant family tree. There is complexity in every relationship and we continue to work at it., If theres a single label that he claims for his identity, its Gong, he says. The three-day gathering (March 2 to 4, 2023) will feature several . . A powerful couple to help open up China. Ties with ancestors increase family closeness, gratitude, miracles. Im sorry for that feeling in the pit of your stomachI know it all too well. It is heartbreaking when we are asked questions about religion, but cannot respond. Very happy about these calls for all sorts of reasons; thanks for adding another very cogent one to the pile! As part of RootsTech 2023, Elder David A. Bednar and Elder Gerrit W. Gong will provide instruction to stake and ward leaders in the annual Temple and Family History Leadership Instruction. My last post must have sounded like trolling as it has disappeared. Elder Gerrit W. Gong of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and his wife, Sister Susan Gong, will attend. I also rejoice in the callings of Elder Gong and Elder Soares. Their circumstances are different, but their faith and testimonies are in many ways the same, he said. [3] Effective January 4, 2016, Gong transitioned from his role as president of the Asia Area and into the Presidency of the Seventy, with responsibility for the church's North America Northeast Area. Still, they often have warred within the psyche of this 29-year-old, leaving wounds that have taken years to heal. I dont expect that these men will be cultural or political reformers. In doing so, he gave himself the chance to extend grace to his past selves. Anyone who thinks otherwise is giving themselves a little too much credit. Join thousands already receiving our daily newsletter. Elder Gong, the oldest of three children, inherited his parents love for learning. Those interested in participating in the conference can register online at https://rootstech.org. [7], Gong graduated from Cubberley High School in Palo Alto, California, in 1971. I dont know how it came to us; it just did, said Sister Susan Gong. Discover Gerrit W. Gong's Biography, Age, Height, Physical Stats, Dating/Affairs, Family and career updates. Da de descubrimiento familiar: lder y hermana Gong. And it takes strength to keep sustaining when a shift comes before one is ready. . Since there is a sub thread discussion about race here, Ill just highlight this very good and enlightening piece by PBS from a few years ago about race in Brazil. Gerrit W. Gong Featured. they wondered. Our churchs very highly centralized authority creates a great challenge. Elder Soares, a Brazillian, brings long-overdue representation from the southern hemisphere. Not sure that the fact his Asian roots would mean that much to the Chinese government in order to open it for missionary work, but I believe that he fits the mold for Apostleship with age, church experience/loyalty, and worldly accolades. As we discover our story, we connect, we belong, we become." 1. Coming out, though, wasnt the happily-ever-after he had hoped it would be. Arab? He also on occasion continued to travel to Asia, such as being present for the official recognition of the LDS Church in Vietnam. Now as a newly sustained member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles he will share a different kind of light with Gods children throughout the world. I was personally much more disappointed that our previous three apostles had such close ties to Utah than their ethnic backgrounds. The meeting will be available on the Gospel Library app and online in 11 languages beginning In movies, gays were victims, targets for bullies, or the sassy friend.. Come find your voice, your song, your harmony in Him. My family name.. sltrib.com 1996-2023 The Salt Lake Tribune. Sane liberals in the church dont have any illusions about their influence.). I was worried that it would be deletedinstead I have been encouraged to look at it in new ways that I hadnt considered. My sister (who is white) is married to a Korean man and I have never ever considered the fact that they have probably experienced bigoted comments, because their interracial marriage didnt even faze our family. Elder Gong was on my list of best case scenarios. (BTW its Brazilian with one l, not Brazillian with two. [20][21] Among other activities while Gong was president of the Asia Area, he created the second and third stakes in Thailand. But its something a couple should acknowledge and prepare for. He encouraged listeners to connect with ancestors and descendants in uniting God's family. Elder Gerrit W. Gong of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and Sister Susan Gong are the keynote speakers for Family Discovery Day on the final day of RootsTech, the global family history gathering . . Elder Gong has a Dutch first name, an American middle name (Walter after his father) and a Chinese last name . In the April 2022 General Conference, Elder Gerrit W. Gong said, " [W]e each have a story. (For more reading on this, seehere,here, and here.). Family history also encourages us to preserve our own experiences . All quotes by Gerrit W. Gong and in blue (unless otherwise noted). Both Elder and Sister Gong served as full-time missionaries in Taiwan; the couple married in January 1980 in the Salt Lake Temple. Members of Elder Gerrit W. Gong's family and the army of street children they enlisted to help them paint the scene stood back and examined the work. [22] While in the presidency of the Asia Area, Gong resided in Hong Kong but supervised the work of the LDS Church in all of continental East Asia except Korea, Taiwan, and all of Southeast Asia, except the Philippines and south Asia. Thanks for calling attention to the interracial marriage barrier being broken and what this can mean to many families. In October 2015, Gong was appointed to the Presidency of the Seventy, filling a vacancy created by Ronald A. Rasband's call to the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. They understand that diversity is out there, but they havent lived it, and there is no substitute for living it. His first namesake is Gerrit de Jong, the patriarch of the family that Elder Gong's mother, Jean, lived with when she came to Brigham Young University as a recent convert to the Church. This expressed so much of the happiness I feel today. Gong is hardly alone in such a feeling of being misplaced, of course, but his experience is unusual. . The hard thing for ALL of us is to cope with (possibly) inspired decisions that conflict with our own political and philosophical intuitions. Winter 2003 Contact Us Advertising News & Alumni. We need to learn to love so unconditionally that we do not see race anymore, nor genders, nor other marginalization great and small. They will . Ask those who believed in the 1978 Official Declaration long before it came. And hopefully those last few references to the evils of miscegenation can soon be purged. And definitely in Brazil Soares would be considered white. Im excited for Elder Soares calling as are my Brazilian friends in our ward here in Brazil. It takes strength to keep sustaining when one is ready for shifts and even sees wisdom in them, but they dont come. Elder Gongs parents, both professional teachers, collectively spent more than 70 years in the classroom. Did you hear Elder Oaks announce that 40% of.the GAs now have been born outside the US and then rattling off the countries? Members of Elder Gerrit W. Gongs family and the army of street children they enlisted to help them paint the scene stood back and examined the work. AmyT thanks for weighing in! That was later postponed indefinitely as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic. Although the family had provided the sketch, paint, and brushes, something had shifted. Did the Utah Legislature do enough to save the Great Salt Lake? 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