Just be yourself and see where the process takes you. Especially if all your top choices have dropped you. It is a selection process where not all young women get selected for the sorority that they want to belong to or, in some cases, any sorority at all. Concentrate on the houses that have invited you back. I struggled through college. October 5, 2018. That would be fair and give the smaller sororities the chance to recruit more girls. That means a sorority has to love you as much as you love them (and vice versa) in order for you to get an invite back the next day of Rush. While it is a bittersweet feeling, I can say I am very happy to be done. This is the part that has always torn at my heart the most. Often the first call comes at 5am. If you are a sophomore or jr your gpa has a big impact on if you get dropped or not. The truth is, there are a million possible reasons why you were released, and the only people who know the actual reason are the actives who made those decisions. If you are still feeling iffy about it during Bid Day or even right before sorority Initiation, you can drop your sorority and go through formal recruitment again. Because when you think about it, it is kind of strange how we let animals that still chase other animals, lick themselves, and eat slugs (like my dog) live in our homes and sleep beside us in our beds. And Im so glad he did! You are in the midst, Our SUV pulled out fully packed at 6 a.m. this past Saturday, and by late afternoon we were returning home both physically and emotionally spent. Spring rush is very limited in spots per sorority if any spots at all. The other day she told me if she knew she would have not hadpositive rush experience, she would have chosen another university. 15. And this is all determined by a ranking system. Most chapters have over 250 active members. Rehearsal in Fletchers class is torture. Your work will be featured on our website and social media feed. Radhi, SUNY Stony Brook3. Jennifer Kustanovich, SUNY Stony Brook5. If you list one sorority on your ranking list, but you were invited back to multiple sororities, this is considered single preference or suicide bidding. Personally, I was cut by every single sorority except Gamma Phi Beta by the second day of recruitment. 17. By the second time, she joined a sorority she absolutely loved and thrived in! Everything you are suddenly coming to know is new. 'use strict';var cls_disable_ads=function(n){function h(a,b){var c="function"===typeof Symbol&&a[Symbol.iterator];if(!c)return a;a=c.call(a);var d,e=[];try{for(;(void 0===b||0