Once someone leaves the Brethren, they are forbidden from having contact with anyone still in the church, including their relatives. It maytake some overcoming yet the time to begin is now-send the fire, the Spirit and Scripture looked at anew and allow God to be God. New rules came thick and fast from the 1960s, when the world leader of the time James Taylor Jnr, an alcoholic businessman from Brooklyn, New York enforced the principle of "separation". A few years ago a review prompted a round of visits to ex-members. If they leave, or are expelled from the Brethren, they have to give up their jobs as well as their family and their home. Imagine a life without television, music or freedom; imagine every minute of your spare time being spent attending church; imagine growing up believing swimming pools, cinemas and dancing were evil. Brethren families as well as businesses are also encouraged to buy goods and services from companies which give cash back to UBT and the National Assistance Fund, including petrol and groceries. While putting heavy restrictions on the movements members, the leaders engage in dirty tricks campaigns. The Exclusive Brethren [MP3] Hack reporter Steve Cannane presents this radio report [MP3] on the Exclusive Brethrens involvement in Australian politics. While Open Brethren tolerate autonomy in individual congregations, Exclusive Brethren do not. John Hales was eventually accepted back into the church and became its global leader - but the commercial system was not revived until after his death when his son, Bruce Hales, took over. What clinched it for them was realising they "could never say to our children 'we can't have you in the house', like our parents said to us". Bulk purchasing power is smart business - but according to former members, Brethren were not really "free to choose". The Exclusive Brethren member was among a delegation sent to the United States in the 1980s to meet that farmer, James Symington, who despite losing his sight and both legs to diabetes, held onto his position as global leader of the Brethren until his death. The axe had fallen, and the Brethren had "withdrawn" from me. Says one, his smile like a plea: "We don't want to get into a media conflict. They see young single people often "going off the rails" after leaving the church. They believe the rules have been relaxed since their time in the fold. and others who were in practical fellowship with them for the years c. 1827 to 1959. On Sundays church attendance ramped up to four different services, with the earliest at 6am. Exclusive Brethren Vernon Suckling, manager of Trax Equipment, says: "The way we're promoted is certainly not the way we feel we are. Source: Secretive sect softens ban on outside contact, The Guardian, March 15, 2003. Ensconced in the narrow world of the Exclusive Brethren, Craig realised he was gay and his only options were to live a lie or break free. Sorrow overthe past and humility in the present may be the keystones to those many groups to visit one anothers meetings and to see how little stands between them and to share meetings in the spirit of oneness not implied superiority. The Exclusive Brethren practice the doctrine of separation: they eat, sleep and live apart from the world, except when doing business with 'worldly' people. He wrote a prescription for Cyprostat, a hormonal suppressant usually reserved for sex offenders and prostate cancer patients. I didn't want to leave but it seemed inevitable, and the longer I waited the more collateral damage I would cause. The early Brethren believed that, by separating from what they regarded as the unwarranted and unlegitimated system that was represented by the organization of churches, they possessed an adequate basis for the unity of all properly motivated Christians. Growing up in the Exclusive Brethren meant missing out on a lot of things other children took for granted. Children are often educated within the Brethren community, although many Brethren children do attend mainstream schools. I stayed briefly with my aunt and uncle in Palmerston North, and in January 2008 I was sent on to stay in Sydney under the watchful eye of Bruce Hales himself. A flowchart illustrates how the Exclusive Brethren - or Plymouth Brethren Christian Church - money-go-round works. Adrian is cynical about the Brethren culture. To continue to sit in the illusion that we and only we are right is a presumption only, a self-enhancing propaganda learned over the years to the detriment of Gods testimony, not to breakdown, but to the mind of Man erring in doctrine and practice. The ones that do, or buck against too many of the fellowship's numerous proscriptions, leave. Known as fair, honest employers and reliable, skilful tradesmen. "[14], Signs of a thaw in attitudes began to appear in the late 1970s. There are two main motivations thought to be behind Brethren-backed political campaigns: promoting parties whose policies are closest to Brethren values (anti-gay rights, pro-traditional family, privatisation and decentralisation), thus delaying the "Rapture", when Jesus Christ is expected to descend and take away true believers; and, the more worldly theory of promoting parties with business-friendly policies to further Brethren's own business interests. According to the companies register, the seven directors and shareholders of the Fund's corporate trustee are current directors or shareholders of 79 other companies. Although widely welcomed at first, both found themselves increasingly isolated as their Charismatic sympathies became known and Brethren leaders like Robert Laidlaw, William H. Pettit, Enoch Coppin, Colin Graham, and Ces Hilton, along with J. []. I saw a GP for a second opinion; a white-haired doctor who brusquely imparted there was nothing wrong with me, and "your emotions are a completely normal response to an extreme situation". Members who do something against the Exclusive code are required to confess their sin during church meetings and demonstrate their repentance. However, he baulked at paying hundreds of dollars a month to join UBT for "business advice" he did not have time to read or services he did not need. Brethren women are distinguished by their white or blue headscarves and long hair -- which must never be cut. This is quite different from mainstream Christian belief, which says that Jesus was always fully God and fully man. Confessions were a regular part of my teen years. "If you understood the way they were brought up, we've got everything that we need in the fellowship, and they don't need to do that so it doesn't really come up, because they don't want to, really." Outsiders see him as an autocrat. 16, 2006. I felt trapped, a Brethren failure, and ultimately convinced that I needed to confess my sexuality. ", Doug Watt, a spokesman for the church, said:"The Plymouth Brethren Christian Church considers this to be a private matter and have no further comment to make.". Wellington man Rob McLean, who was excommunicated from the church over a decade ago and forced to relinquish his business, said for many older Brethren, this was history repeating itself. These confessions came to a head when one day, feeling completely broken, I finally confessed to being gay. Every Monday, employees at Brethren companies nationwide religiously watch the latest Silver Bulletin, a short online video interspersing business advice with the latest exclusive offers to members. You will receive notifications of new posts by email. "We are accused of being secretive; it's more that we want to keep our heads down and live according to our convictions. As a child growing up in Invercargill, my grandma told me about how, when the rule came in that sect members shouldn't have pets as they represented an emotional bond that could come between you and God, the family went and drowned their cat in the river. Across the Tasman, we've seen exposes of strong Exclusive Brethren financial backing in John Howard's re-election and allegations of past money-smuggling and child sexual abuse cover-ups. At the age of 20, I found myself learning the ways of the world for the first time, and was baffled by how it all worked. * Around 800 mainly small private businesses Sarah Hall was a veteran TV3 journalist, although to me, fresh out of the Exclusive Brethren in November 2009, that meant nothing. Aformer member believes Stewart hasbeen 'shut up' a Brethren term which is usually the first step towards being excommunicated, andmeans the person is barred from speaking to other members of the church, eating or socialising with them, and from attending the daily church meetings which everyone is expected to attend. Inquiries regarding developments after 1959 have led to the inclusion of subsequent history. Members of the Exclusive Brethren do not make friends, or even eat with people outside their church. In addition to the kickbacks, Brethren-owned businesses also move a percentage of their profits into trusts or directly to the National Assistance Fund. influencing the lives of the brethren and leading to a deeper apprehension of the Lords Supper and the enrichment of the service of God. "They tend to spend their lives trying to get around rules while trying to keep their noses clean." Brethren families as well as businesses are also encouraged to buy goods and services from companies which give cash back to UBT and the National Assistance Fund, including petrol and groceries. The BBC website listed the following rules for Exclusive Brethren: they cannot go to university, have televisions or radios, visit cinemas or the theatre, read newspapers or fiction, use computers, own mobile phones, vote in elections, serve in the armed forces or join any group that includes people outside the Brethren. I had a whole drawer of Richard Allan and Liberty Silk scarves." I think they expected we'd go back and were surprised when we didn't. Together they employ at least 60 people, either Brethren or Christian. This is ironic, because among the activities forbidden for members of the movement are such things as watching television, listening to the radio, reading newspapers and using computers and the internet. All members must follow the rigid code of behaviour and rules that govern the contact they can have with outsiders. Those burning bridges were already burnt, and having come this far I figured I might as well go a bit further. * Firms clustered in around 40 towns and cities, mostly provincial centres Yesterday RNZ revealed the unusual structure of this charity, which is wholly controlled by the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church but with no formal constitutional link to it. Open Brethren do not have the restrictions Exclusive Brethren face. These people, like his father, still retain a hope of getting back into the Brethren, so they are quiet and careful to keep the rules. They only say, cryptically: "We've nothing to hide and nothing to parade." On one occasion a senior leader asked if I was sexually attracted to a local priest. Brethren run at least 12 firms in Dargaville - mostly in trade and farm supplies - many clustered in an industrial complex on the town's southern edge. "A lot of guys, they've got a perception out here it's just one big orgy. Bruce Hales was a paunchy office furniture salesman from Sydney. Mum had a honey-coloured guitar. The church is strictly controlled by a central authority. "It's beentraumatising but from my perspective and my family'swe've been very free in a Christian spirit to forgive Russell. The international community is run by the "Man of God", who has absolute power to dictate the church's rules. Exclusive Brethren member shopping at Woolworths Dargaville. Under this doctrine Brethren members were forbidden from socialising, eating, living, or fraternising with non-members, leading to a period of cruel upheaval as followers scrambled to comply. What's behind it all will come out in time. Rob McLean said he believed making money should not be the primary goal of an organisation calling itself a church. Enter your email address to subscribe. Based on more than two years of research, this comprehensive study uncovers the lesser-known facts behind one of historys most enigmatic and influential Christian sects. After the UK Charity Commissions refusal to grant Charity Status to the Exclusive Brethren, in the summer of 2012, an observer provided a series of explanatory comments regarding that decision: 2.10 Misleading information: whilst it is of course legitimate to change a name and reconstruct a website, it should not be done in such a way as to make it appear that it involves an entirely different organisation. "It's a round circle scheme - they are using their businesses to pay 'donations' back to their own church and then they are claiming that back as a tax deductible expense.". He's had his own serious, serious loss. I wrote "I'm gay" on a piece of paper and pushed it across the table to the priest. They are evil. At meeting and whenever the Bible or hymns were involved women had to wear a. [28] By 1911, it had become known as the Gospel Publishing House, but this name has since been depreciated. I couldn't imagine being self-assured enough to make such a bold statement to the world. If brethren and sisters continue to fellowship with other professing Christians who hold and practise the sign-gifts they will have to withdraw because we will have nothing to do with these practices. N.B. "That's not the role the church should play.". Even their churches are typically windowless. * An internal memo sent to Brethren worldwide leaked to One News talks about setting up an umbrella group code-named National Office Assist. The marriage relationship is very much a partnership. 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And what if another family member leaves the sect? Who should be admitted to the breaking of bread ceremony? At least one member of the House of Commons has been mislead. Visits to New Zealand by British Brethren preachers Campbell McAlpine and Arthur Wallis in the late 1950s and early 1960s caused a great deal of controversy. Ship visits to New Zealand became increasingly frequent in the 1860s, and Exclusives back in the British Isles began to hear reports that the New Zealand Brethren were deviating from accepted norms. You'll find most of them are really happy in their role." Confessions were a regular part of his teenage years. * A national trust, run by three of the Secret Seven who bankrolled the anti-government pamphlets last year, now operates 15 regional campuses under the umbrella of Westmount School. Dad held her arms behind her back as she sobbed, struggling to break free for a hug. "When you pull out one of those Jenga blocks it can make the whole pile quite unstable. "I got on very well with my father, and I was never there in the years you want to be there, when they get old and you want to do their lawns." But eventually the constant monitoring by other Brethren and having to account for their actions got too much. Jim Taylor taught that Jesus was human when he was born and did not become fully divine until later; either when he was 12, or at his baptism. Here is how the money-go-round works: large New Zealand retail businesses get guaranteed customers (the Brethren who are directed to purchase their goods and services) in return for rebates, which go to UBT. We went to work in businesses owned by Brethren; we socialised with Brethren; saw them at church every night, and enjoyed the benefits of a life fully provided. These sessions often involved alcohol. It expressly denies being either a union or an advocacy group; its stated aim is to give pastors a forum for mutual support and encouragement. Little did we know we'd make the evening news. This Sydney-based "global consultancy group" claims to provide "services and advice" to about 3000 Brethren-owned businesses in 19 countries, with a combined revenue of more than $12.6 billion NZD. From tear gas to television, Craig Hoyle has had quite the ride since leaving the Exclusive Brethren sect 10 years ago. READ MORE: *Brethren members in 'clean-up' operation *Hansen andApiatapreach teamwork Brethren *Sect's leader tells followers to drink rat poison. Initially, they saw no need for any but the simplest pattern of organization, and their separation from all existing churches was not conceived as a negative decision, but rather as the only basis on which the unity of true Christians could be established. I wish him well.". "Bible Chapels" include both conservative and progressive assemblies, while "Community Churches" (often similar to the Brethren-affiliated "Evangelical Churches" of the United Kingdom) tend to be at the progressive end of the spectrum, often with salaried pastors, women taking an audible part in worship and sometimes in leadership, and varying degrees of openness to the Charismatic movement. However, their children live quite separate lives from other New Zealand children. The Brethren in New Zealand have diversified greatly in the last generation. "Gospel Chapels" tend to be conservative; "Gospel Halls" even more so. They told me I was mentally unwell. Rob McLean questions the Exclusive Brethren beliefs and practices that led to his ejection from the group. This study was formerly hosted at theexclusivebrethren.com the only site endorsed by the Exclusive Brethren. The site has since been renamed to plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch.org, to reflect the movements 2012 name change. By the time I was born, in the late autumn of 1989, the Exclusive Brethren had morphed into an oppressive sect that tightly managed every aspect of its members' lives. Tears. The Exclusive Brethren practice the doctrine of separation: they eat, sleep and live apart from the world, except when doing business with 'worldly' people. This, however, wasn't about what I'd done it was about who I was. Since 2003 an Exclusive Brethren trust has set up 15 year 7-12 schools here, teaching about 1000 children. I knew there was no future for me in the sect. 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At one church service it was said the spirit of God departed from us if we ever crossed the threshold of a cinema the next time I was at the movies I stepped backwards and forwards through the doorway to see whether it felt any different (it didn't). Despite the claim that Plymouth Brethren Christian Church is the historic name (http://www.plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch.org/) it is an entirely new invention. Brethren leaders throughout New Zealand unanimously rejected the Charismatic movement in 1964, and decided that the assembly at Te Papapa, Mangere, which had endorsed the view that all spiritual gifts were operating today, would no longer be "recognized" as a Brethren assembly. The broker, whom RNZ has agreed not to name, said while they were not doing anything illegal, he was uncomfortable with the way in which the church treated former members in particular. "We had to go to business meetings, paid thousands of dollars to go to business meetings all round New Zealand. Perhaps you're an uncle by now. My family ties stretched back nearly 200 years to when the Plymouth Brethren sect was founded in Dublin in the 1820s. Former members of the Exclusive Brethren allege the secretive sect is breaking up families, putting members in isolation and attacking their livelihoods in order to maintain control. The sites objectives are stated as follows: My Brethren deals mainly but not exclusively with the history and ministry of JND, JBS, FER, CAC, JT, GRC. Video first published in 2015. The doctrine of separation from iniquity or separation from sin, makes the Exclusive Brethren unique. They are absolutely vicious to those who want to leave, you'll lose everything, including your family. This is often seen as one of many signs that the line of demarcation between Brethren assemblies and other independent Evangelical churches is becoming blurred a situation that some Brethren welcome, and some do not. The worldwide leader of the Exclusive Brethren, having ruled since his father John Hales died in January 2002, he had a penchant for good food and an even greater penchant for good whisky. Members who break rules are required to confess their sin during church meetings and demonstrate their repentance. This is based on the Biblical procedure for the treatment of lepers, and involves being isolated from family and friends and only allowed to see specially chosen church members until local church leaders believe that God has forgiven the person. One, for 25 years a manager of an engineering firm, who speaks only on the condition of anonymity, openly expresses a sense of persecution. For him, too, the forced distancing from his parents hurt the most. Source: The Exclusive Brethren, BBC. He was sympathetic to my plight but made clear there was no place for gay people, warning me "never accept yourself for who you are". A grandparent dies of cancer and suddenly you have to call your family, trying to find out where they are so you can say goodbye. Television is a strange thing. "They apologised for the way they'd been treating us. Massey religious history expert Peter Lineham believes the political campaigns are part of a masterplan orchestrated by the powerful, rich Sydney-based world leader Bruce Hales, implemented here by a select group of Brethren businessmen. Some Brethren sources claim this number to be an underestimate, with internal surveys indicating as many as 38,000 adults and children attending Brethren assemblies almost one percent of New Zealand's population. Sarah and I got caught up in a media scrum with the Kardashian family while filming an unrelated story in Yerevan, and joked to local Armenian reporters that we'd come all the way from New Zealand to see Kim and Kanye. They keep themselves separated from other people (including other Christians), because they believe the world is sinful. I'm happy and independent, and loving it. These early Brethren were men of education and social positiontwelve of the earliest Brethren were, or were training to be, Anglican clergymen (in England and Ireland); five were ministers in Nonconformist churches; a number had private means, including five with titles, and another eight were, or had been, commissioned officers. Instead I felt condemned to struggle against the essence of who I was. Many independent assemblies were formed, which gradually coalesced into a network that became known as the Open Brethren. Petrie, then 74, was jailed for2 years for the offences. There'll be a dinner and dance, a "mystery day" and lots of socialising - "certainly not religious, just a fun weekend". Within days the Brethren tracked me down in Christchurch and appealed for my return. [], Members of the Exclusive Brethren are very limited in their contact with outsiders. They are using church connections to run their business and control people.". So at first pass, hardly the Machiavellian, freakish, hostile weirdos you might expect from all the reports. One of your four brothers gets married, but of course you're not invited to the wedding. It wasn't long after that I heard the song Burning Bridges on the radio: All the burning bridges that have fallen after me, All the lonely feelings and the burning memories, Everyone I left behind each time I closed the door. The first shows I watched were The Simpsons and Family Guy. "The thing I find disturbing is these are businesses, so their insurance premiums are tax deductible and on top of that they also claim back the GST - so I view it almost like a legalised form of money laundering. An estimated 5000 of those are Exclusive, with 40,000 worldwide. He appoints local priests, resolves disputes, approves all marriages and decides on levels of punishment for breaches of discipline. Meanwhile, ex-Brethrens here and overseas are telling of the pain of being shunned by family still in the church. But by the time this final step was taken, on October 31 2009, I faced more pressing issues. (The terms "conservative" and "progressive" are often informally used to describe the emphasis, or lack of emphasis, that Brethren assemblies and individuals put on matters of doctrine, worship, and church order which distinguish them from other Evangelical Christians). They were required to wear dresses or skirts, have long hair and very minimalist or no makeup, hair dye and jewellery. Please keep out of jail," Hales told followers. 'The expectation was that you would buy a house, marry a Brethren girl, settle down and raise a Brethren family, and the cycle would rinse and repeat.'. I was told I was rebellious and had a problem with authority. 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